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Some men piss me off so much! The power went out the other day so I was re-programming my VCR...yes my VCR. Anywho-the station that was on had some court show where it looked like someone was trying to get divorced or something. Well I went to change the channel cause I don't really like that crap, but then the guy said something that made me change back. Basically the guy said "If you get nagged enough by your woman, you'll eventually go out and bag another!" In other words, go out and sleep with another woman while you're still married to this one...cheat! I think that is the biggest fucking load of shit I've ever heard! For the most part if you were to ask a man why he cheated it's because his wife nagged him or wasn't as affectionate any more. Then if you were to ask the man "Well instead of finding another woman, why didn't you just talk to your wife about it!?!" And the man would most likely say because they love their wife and would never want to hurt their feelings. Yet you'd go out and sleep with another woman, which most likely your wife will eventually find out about because most men screw up eventually. So men, you're telling me that you'd rather hurt your wife by sleeping with another woman because you didn't want to hurt her feelings telling her how you felt. And this is why I think men are so stupid and piss me off some times! I'm a woman, and as much as I don't want my husband to hurt my feelings, I think I'd rather want to be hurt by him telling me how he feels then by finding out he's sleeping with another woman!

My friend (Crystal) told me that her husband's (Derrik) father (Jerry) had an affair with another woman for about 7 years! The wife (Rosemary) found about about it not once, but twice! And the first time Rosemary found out, her son Derrik had already known and was carrying the burden around on his shoulders for a while because he couldn't tell his mother. Not only that but he was in college trying to start his future off right. That's a lot to be carrying at such a young age. So anywho, Jerry said he'd clean this up and get rid of the other woman, and life went on as usual. Well Crystal told me that last thanksgiving they were at her in-laws house and Jerry slipped about the affair. Well all this crap happened and now Derrik and his 2 sisters (Jane and Abigail) don't want to have anything to do with their father. Well Jerry wanted to talk to Derrik, they had a long conversation and tried to straighten things out. Well Crystal told me that Derrik finally told her the stuff that he and his father talked about. Well I guess Jerry was worried about his son doing the same thing because Crystal is exactly like Derrik's mother. And Crystal said it would never happen because her and Derrik talk about things! She knew that if anything were wrong, Derrik would come and talk to her and they'd fix it! And if they couldn't fix it, they'd go to a marriage counselor!

So the point of all this is that I agree with Christal! You marry someone for a reason, because you love them and want to spend the rest of your lives together. Some times that happens and some times it doesn't. But when it doesn't it's usually because people don't try to make it work. To have a good marriage you need love, trust, communication, friendship and passion! So when something is wrong you need to talk to your spouse about it. Because if you don't talk to your spouse how are they supposed to know how you feel. And how can your spouse try to change what's wrong if they don't know what's wrong!?! Most people are not psychic and don't know what's wrong unless you tell them. So for the men out there (and some women out their), talk to your spouse before you go out and look for a little fling. I know you love them and don't want to hurt their feelings, but it will hurt a lot more if you go out and cheat on them! Just think how you'd feel if your spouse cheated on you. You'd be shocked, hurt, devastated! Why would you want to do that to some one you love!?! Just talk to them, it's not as hard as you may think. And you're marriage could get better if you do. And if it doesn't help your marriage, then try a marriage counselor. And if that doesn't work, well then it wasn't meant to be and you really know that because you tried. There are too many people out there getting divorced because they don't have the time to make it work. Which I think is not only sick, but wrong! If a problem happens at work you don't quit and find a new job, you talk to someone and try to fix it! Same thing with you're friends, if something is wrong you tell them and try to work it out! If people can do this, why is it so hard to talk to your spouse, the person you love the most and want to spend the rest of your life with!?! It just doesn't make any sense to me....

I want to be going to Cape Cod too!! I never get to go any where....

What's with the lady trying to euthanize these coyotes? I know they could be harmful to people, but you don't have to kill them! Send them to different wild life parks and zoos around the country. Let them benefit from the coyotes, let kids see and learn about coyotes! This way the coyote population will hopefully go down, people will be safer and no one has to die for it! People should visit this web page before taking drastic action! http://www.livingwithwildlife.org/wildlifehelp/animals/coyote.html

Some times I can be so stupid....
B and I have been friends since kindergarten, that's 19 years! I was the liar, the crazy one, the one that ALWAYS did something stupid and ruined everything! And never apologized for it!
That's pretty much the way things were in elementary school, junior high and high school. After high school we lost touch for a few years, it wasn't until 2001 that we really started to hang out again.
At this point I had grown up...to a point. My boyfriend and I were engaged, so of course I was going to ask B to be one of my bridesmaids! So for almost 2 years things were going great...I actually didn't do any thing stupid! But I kinda knew that it had to happen sometime, I mean come on, it's me we're talking about here! Well July of 2003 it finally happened!
We all went into the city around 10AM to find some bridesmaid dresses. I didn't want the traditional look, I wanted something fun, something that they'd like and could wear again. Things started out good, but it all went down hill from there.
It first started with me trying to tell B the reason why we were picking dresses out this way. So SHE would be comfortable. Well it turned out more like this...you have a big ass and I don't want you to feel fat, so we are mainly going with what you are comfortable with because the other girls are skinny and should have no problem finding a dress! I didn't say those exact words, but that's what it sounded like!
(Email from March 31st 2003: "Still debating on when to get the dresses, cause B said she wanted to lose some weight before the wedding. So I don't know if we should go yet, but if she's good to go then YAY!"
Email from April 7th 2003: "You, C and K should be easy...but B...not so easy. She has only 1 day free on the weekend with no real time to travel and she's the only one that I'm really concerned about with the dress...well she is too...her big ga dunk a dunk! So the 3 of us could go and get dresses, but we'd have to make sure it would fit her! So confusing....).
Before we even went dress shopping my boyfriend and I said reds or golds for the dress...well gold is ugly, so reds! Well I had already gone with the flower girl to get her dress, it was light and medium pink with dark pink flower centers. I wanted everyone to match so I told the bridesmaids that the dress could be light pink, medium pink, dark pink and/or burgundy.
Well a few hours later we found a great dress, I loved it, they loved it, everyone was comfortable and just looked great in it. I even wanted to buy it for myself! But it was the WRONG color, it was a red/orange. That color would not go with the flower girl dress, so we had to pass. And of course everyone was upset because they liked the dress and wanted to get it, but it was still my wedding and it had to be the right color, which it wasn't!
Well 4 or 5 hours later we still didn't have a dress or shoes, and this was the ONLY day we could ALL get together before the wedding to get a dress. All my other weekends were booked with wedding things and most of the girls had plans on the weekends too. And there was no way to do this the next day, sunday, because B had to work at 9AM that morning! So we needed to get our acts into gear. But stupid me with my dad's temper, I went along and said something stupid...all I really remember is this:
"We only have a few more hours...I'm going to have to turn into bridezilla and pick out a fucking dress for you if you don't find a damn dress soon!....(and the big one)....And your opinion won't fucking matter if I have to pick out a fucking dress!" And when I was done speaking, I knew I blew it, big time!
This is what I meant to say, jokingly, because they were the ones mainly picking out the dress. "Hey so we only have a few more hours to find a dress and shoes. Unfortunately if you can't find a dress soon I'm going to have to turn into "bridezilla" (because that tv show was on just a few weeks ago) and pick out one for you!" Why couldn't I have just said that in the first place?
Well J and K didn't really care what we got any way, to them it was my wedding and what ever I wanted they'd be happy with! And C and B wanted to pick out something that they liked and were comfortable with, but it didn't turn out that way because in the end I ended up picking out the dress.
After that I don't think I said 2 words, I mainly just let them pick out shoes that they liked and brought over a few that I liked and thought they might like.
Well that all changed, after like 6 shoes stores I was tired and didn't really care about anything any more. I just wanted them to buy a damn pair of shoes!
Well 3 out of the 4 girls liked a pair of shoes, so I told them to just get them. Well the 4th girl didn't like the shoes because they had a heal and she was conscientious about her height. Well I didn't hear that and that's when B blew up at me! "You're selfish, you never admit you're wrong, you treat your boyfriend like shit, you don't treat me that way! We're the ones picking the dress and shoes out, not you, you have no say! This is not the way you do a wedding, the bridesmaids pick out the dress they want to wear, you only tell them which color." Stuff like that!
I just wanted to cry, I can't believe she felt that way, I didn't think I was being that mean. I know I said something stupid a few hours ago, but I was paying for everything, the dress, the shoes, the accessories, hair and make-up. I was stunned!
Well everyone picked out a pair of shoes and then we went back to my house. C and B went home, and I was in tears!
The next day my boyfriend called everyone to hear all sides of the story (since he was neutral and people would talk/listen to him). So he heard 4 out of the 5 sides of the story because B wouldn't talk to us, but he got some of her side from C. He told me how everyone felt, K & J were fine, but I still apologized to them. C would call me when she wanted to talk, about 2 weeks later she did and we worked it out. Later to find out that she couldn't get over this whole thing and wouldn't be in my wedding. I called/emailed B 3 times over the next few weeks....
Emails from July 28th 2003 to August 2nd 2003: Kr: "Hola B, We definitely need to talk things over, so if you could possibly give me a call when you're free or if you could drop me an email to let me know when you're free so I can give you a call that would be great! :) Kr". B: "I got your messages. I have to work doubles everyday until Wednesday, so Thursday is my next day off, but my friends and I have a lake george trip planned for that day. Not sure when I'll be around." Kr: "Hola B, Ok, well just give me a call the next time you are free or just send me an email to let me know the next time you will be free, so I can call you! :) Kr". B:"I really have nothing to talk to you about".
So as you can tell B wasn't in my wedding and 19 years of friendship went right down the toilet!
After all this, my husband made me realize that it's for the best if C, B and I are not friends.
But there are still a few things that bother me about B.
Like telling me how a wedding must be. NO! It's my wedding and I can do it how I like. No 2 weddings are the same!
That THEY make the dress decision and I have NO say. I told them from the beginning that I had some say because it was my wedding. (Email from April 20th 2003: "Ok, so everyone is in mass confusion, well B and K at least. So, I am going to tell you all what days I have free for the dress shopping and then you will all tell me if you are free on any of those days.
If you are, good...but if you're not you may have to cancel things since these dates will be the ONLY time to do this! I want EVERYONE here when we do this cause if we only have 3 of ya and we find a dress that I love and we buy them and then it doesn't fit right on that 4th person...well then that just sux for that 4th person...so EVERYONE MUST BE HERE!!!! Ok, so the weekends that are good...June 7th, July 12th, 19th & 26th, August 2nd, 16th & 30th. Also I just wanted to let you all know that your hair, make-up, accessories and dress will all be paid for by me! :) So I hope you all are a little more at ease knowing that you don't have to save any money or be in debt because of this wedding! The hair will be simple and the make-up will just be highlighting your best features! Nothing too whore like! :) The accessories will make the dress dressier and you all know my ideas for dresses. So I believe that covers everything...so get back to me ASAP on those dates! :)).
All of that bothers me so much, but it's really the fact that B and I have been friends for so long and I did one thing wrong in the past 2 years, tried to apologize for it and she didn't even want to speak to me!

To me this whole gay marriage thing is inevitable, which is a good thing. Change is good, so people need to stop fighting it! Do you really want your kids to live in a world of discrimination against ones sexuality? No, I didn't think so. Times change, people change. 2, 3 hundred years ago the only people allowed to vote were white males. Well, women can vote now and so can black people, along with asians, mexicans, portiricians...and any one else who is an american citizen! Black people used to be slaves...are they today, NO! Change is good!
I saw a sign that said "man + woman = marriage", yes that sign is right, for now, but it shows ignorance! People don't say "I'm a man and you're a woman, so lets get married!" People get married because they LOVE each other. So if a man loves a man, and a woman loves a woman, why can't they get married? I don't see the problem. You wouldn't say to someone "oh you're black and you're white so you can't get married" or "you're white and you're asian so you can't get married". To me that's taking away someone's rights! That's like saying you can't say the word "dog", you can't dance in your own house and you can't like the color green. So why can't gays get married? Again I don't see the problem.
Oh wait, I see the problem, men and women already married don’t want the “gays” to take away from what’s "rightfully theirs", basically "their" tax money. Well isn’t that just silly, you’re trying to take away someone's right to love and be happy just because you want "your" money…how selfish are you? Or you're old and set in your ways and can't change, so it's ok to say "being gay is wrong!" Well saying "you're set in your ways" is just another word for lazy, doesn't like change or discrimination! That's basically what that says to me, if you don't want to change you just want to discriminate against others.
Tolerance is what we are looking at here. Again things change, you may not want them to and you may not accept them when they do. But you have to be tolerant of them, otherwise you're just a discriminator!
Also, these bible people...come on...do you really follow the bible to the T? I don't think so...cause if you did you wouldn't be having sex, and if you did you'd have like 10 children! And there's a thing called separation of church and state. Which means that state can not make just one religion, and religion can not be apart of state, such as schools and government. Basically religion can have nothing to do with the vote on gay marriage because our state officials are supposed to decide what's best for our people and our country, not what's best for our people and our country as far as religion goes.
There are many different religions in this country, and I'm sure gay people don't all follow just one religion. Some gays are even catholic! So who's to say that this one religion can be the deciding factor?
So all you bible people need to just keep quiet about gay marriage because our government is not allowed to vote because of religion!
If you don't remember anything I just said, at least remember this: WHY DO PEOPLE GET MARRIED? BECAUSE THEY LOVE EACH OTHER! So if 2 people of the same sex love each other, why can't they get married too?

I don't know why I even bother doing anything for this wedding. I'm only wasting my time...it's not like I'm gonna show up any way.

It's getting to the point were I don't even want to go to my own wedding....

Everyone says planning a wedding is stressful and hectic...well so far it hasn't been. Only one thing was hectic and that was the bridesmaid dress shopping. I told the girls that I would pay for dresses, shoes, accessories, hair and make-up. Since they were going to be in my wedding as a favor to me I didn't think it was fair for them to pay for anything. And I wanted everyone to be comfortable the day of the wedding so I wanted everyone to get together and pick out a dress. Boy was that a mistake. So now everything has gone all to hell and of course it's all my fault because I don't know how to control my temper or keep my big loud annoying mouth shut. So I'm trying to fix everything and hopefully it will get fixed because I've been friends with these girls for 16 and 19 years and a stupid thing like this shouldn't have to be the end of a great friendship! So the moral of the story is...weddings are hectic and stressful, no matter how simple you try to do things. And for you brides, either pick out a dress for the bridesmaids and make them wear it or pick out several dresses and tell the bridesmaids that they have to decide on the dress.

Why are men such big stupid babies!?!
He goes on and on with a story when he could just tell me the point. And when I just tell him the point he rushes me to finish.
BIG BABY!

I've given up on me, so why can't you?

I love him, but I don't trust him....

What is so wrong with me that no one likes me!?!

I wish I could win some money....

I want a change in my life, but what to change!?! EVERYTHING!!!! Basically I want to feel better about myself; I'm eating healthier and exercising to lose my extra 30 lbs. I'm growing my hair out so I can cut it off and give it to locks of love (they make wigs for people who don't have hair) All I need to do is figure out what I'm going to do with my man.... I've been soooo depressed lately, that I don't know how I feel about him...and us any more. I don't really have an interest in anything any more. All I want to do is sleep, eat and be left alone! So I'm going to go to a psychologist for that...and hopefully when I start feeling better about myself, I'll know what to do with my man! And my life....

Men just don't get it.
Why are men such assholes!?!

Depressed as usual....
My fiancee cares more about another woman then he does about me.

Yeah so if you use aol instant messanger, you probably shouldn't. Someone has hacked aol's system and now people can get into your computer through aol instant messanger!
http://www.theregister.co.uk/content/4/23530.html

So if you're looking for an alternative try trillian....
http://www.trillian.cc
You can be on 5 systems at 1 time; aol, icq, msn, yahoo and irc.

Man I am so bored...I hate being bored, but there is never anything to do, so of corse I'm going to be bored...AHHHH!!!!

It's sad when you can't make anyone happy, not even yourself.